2010.03.10 15:13:34

You might even start noticing that you use the same language, talk the same way and have the same sorts of mannerisms and gestures?

Now some of you probably know what I mean by matching and mirroring. Just imagine what life would be like if you were constantly carrying around these sorts of beliefs. I would then work myself up into a frenzy of self doubt with voices going on in my head saying things like: - ôWhat have you got to offer?ö - ôWhat will she see in you?ö - ôYoułre shit and she knows it?ö If I did pick up enough courage to speak to her, and often I just wouldnłt bother, my approach would be nervous and hesitant.