2010.03.10 15:14:51

You notice something about her, the location or the situation that gives you an opening (I prefer "about her" as this makes a very personal approach, although to personal and it will scare her off, so be careful)?

Just imagine what life would be like if you were constantly carrying around these sorts of beliefs. Now some of you probably know what I mean by matching and mirroring. An easy way of noticing the difference is when you are with some friends where you have a natural rapport just break it in the middle of a conversation and notice the difference in how you feel inside a well as how it changes the quality of the conversation.