2010.07.29 19:37:43

Now just imagine that woman you have decided is worth speaking to?

Can you imagine just how good that would feel if you were doing it right now? Please reread the first line of the last paragraph and as you say it to yourself notice how it feels. The first is about understanding just how you can adjust your language to create different feelings inside someone else. I would suggest that a better approach would be to get her talking about some great experiences she has had and get her to start associating these with you.